{"id":1367,"date":"2015-02-10T09:50:26","date_gmt":"2015-02-10T14:50:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/darussaafi.wordpress.com\/?p=1367"},"modified":"2016-01-20T03:13:22","modified_gmt":"2016-01-20T03:13:22","slug":"the-ruling-on-befriending-a-person-who-calls-to-evil-shaikh-ibn-ul-uthaymeen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/?p=1367","title":{"rendered":"The Ruling on Cursing and Insulting Others If They Insult You  &#8211; Shaikh Ibn ul-&#8216;Uthaymeen"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"pf-content\"><p><strong>Question<\/strong>: Some friends curse and insult me. So do I respond to them with similar to what they said or what do I do?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Answer<\/strong>: \u201cLook at the benefit of that. If there is a benefit that necessitates leaving them, abandoning them and not responding with similar to what they said, then do so. If there is a benefit that requires other than that, then you have the right to respond to them with similar to what they said to you. Allah says:<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">\u0648\u064e\u062c\u064e\u0632\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064f \u0633\u064e\u064a\u0651\u0650\u0626\u064e\u0629\u064d \u0633\u064e\u064a\u0651\u0650\u0626\u064e\u0629\u064c \u0645\u0650\u062b\u0652\u0644\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">The recompense for an evil is an evil like thereof,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">[42:40]<\/p>\n<p>And He says:<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">\u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0646\u062a\u064e\u0635\u064e\u0631\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0639\u0652\u062f\u064e \u0638\u064f\u0644\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0641\u064e\u0623\u064f\u0648\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0626\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650\u0645\u0652 \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0633\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0644\u064d * \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0651\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a\u0644\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u064a\u064e\u0638\u0652\u0644\u0650\u0645\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0633\u064e \u0648\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0628\u0652\u063a\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0623\u064e\u0631\u0652\u0636\u0650 \u0628\u0650\u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0642\u0651\u0650 \u0623\u064f\u0648\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0626\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627\u0628\u064c \u0623\u064e\u0644\u0650\u064a\u0645\u064c<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">And indeed whosoever takes revenge after he has suffered wrong, for such there is no way (of blame) against them. The way (of blame) is only against those who oppress men and wrongly rebel in the earth, for such there will be a painful torment.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">[42:41-42]<\/p>\n<p>An exception to that is\u00a0if she is fasting. In that case, what is better is not to respond to them due to the statement of the Prophet(\ufdfa) :<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">\u0625\u0646 \u0627\u0645\u0631\u0626 \u0634\u0627\u062a\u0645\u0647 \u0623\u0648 \u0642\u0627\u062a\u0644\u0647 \u0641\u0644\u064a\u0642\u0644: \u0625\u0646\u064a \u0635\u0627\u0626\u0645<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">And if anyone slanders him or quarrels with him, he should say:&#8221; I am fasting, I am fasting<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">[Reported in Bukhari and Muslim]<\/p>\n<p>Also excluded from this also is if your father is cursed, then do not curse his father because that is transgression to the father (i.e. his father because he did not curse you)<\/p>\n<p>[Noor \u2018ala Darb no. 436]<\/p>\n<p>Translated by<\/p>\n<p>Faisal Ibn Abdul Qaadir Ibn Hassan<br \/>\nAbu Sulaymaan<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Some friends curse and insult me. So do I respond to them with similar to what they said or what do I do? Answer: \u201cLook at the benefit of that. If there is a benefit that necessitates leaving them, abandoning them and not responding with similar to what they said, then do so. 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