{"id":3105,"date":"2016-05-20T14:58:25","date_gmt":"2016-05-20T14:58:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/?p=3105"},"modified":"2016-05-20T14:58:25","modified_gmt":"2016-05-20T14:58:25","slug":"how-to-refer-to-ones-father-and-mother-shaikh-yahya-ibn-ali-al-hajoori","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/?p=3105","title":{"rendered":"How to Refer to One’s Father and Mother? – Shaikh Yahya ibn Ali al-Hajoori"},"content":{"rendered":"

Question<\/strong>: Is calling the father and mother: “Oh Father and Oh mother” obligatory or recommended? Is it allowed to call them by their agnomen (\u0627\u0644\u0643\u0646\u064a\u0629<\/strong>)? Do the father and mother due to\u00a0breast-feeding enter into this ruling?<\/p>\n

Answer<\/strong>: ” From the Prophetic etiquette, which Ibrahim (\u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0644\u0627\u0629 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645<\/strong>) used with his father is that he called him using these words and addressed his father with these words. Allah, the Exalted said:<\/p>\n

\u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u064e\u062a\u0650 \u0644\u0650\u0645\u064e \u062a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0628\u064f\u062f\u064f \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u064e\u0633\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0639\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u064f\u0628\u0652\u0635\u0650\u0631\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0627 \u064a\u064f\u063a\u0652\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0643\u064e \u0634\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0626\u064b\u0627 * \u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u064e\u062a\u0650 \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0650\u0651\u064a \u0642\u064e\u062f\u0652 \u062c\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0645\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0639\u0650\u0644\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0644\u064e\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0623\u0652\u062a\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0641\u064e\u0627\u062a\u064e\u0651\u0628\u0650\u0639\u0652\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0623\u064e\u0647\u0652\u062f\u0650\u0643\u064e \u0635\u0650\u0631\u064e\u0627\u0637\u064b\u0627 \u0633\u064e\u0648\u0650\u064a\u064b\u0651\u0627 * \u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u064e\u062a\u0650 \u0644\u0627 \u062a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0628\u064f\u062f\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0634\u064e\u0651\u064a\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0625\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0651 \u0627\u0644\u0634\u064e\u0651\u064a\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0643\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0644\u0650\u0644\u0631\u064e\u0651\u062d\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0639\u064e\u0635\u0650\u064a\u064b\u0651\u0627 * \u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u064e\u062a\u0650 \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0650\u0651\u064a \u0623\u064e\u062e\u064e\u0627\u0641\u064f \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0651\u0643\u064e \u0639\u064e\u0630\u064e\u0627\u0628\u064c \u0645\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0631\u064e\u0651\u062d\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0641\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0644\u0650\u0644\u0634\u064e\u0651\u064a\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0627\u0646\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0650\u064a\u064b\u0651\u0627<\/strong><\/p>\n

“O my father! Verily! There has come to me of knowledge that which came not unto you. So follow me. I will guide you to a Straight Path.
\n“O my father! Worship not Shaitan (Satan). Verily! Shaitan (Satan) has been a rebel against the Most Beneficent (Allah).
\n“O my father! Verily! I fear lest a torment from the Most Beneficent (Allah) overtake you, so that you become a companion of Shaitan (Satan) (in the Hell-fire) [17:43-45]<\/p>\n

So the word “oh my father” (\u064a\u0627 \u0623\u0628\u062a<\/strong>) is a desired affair from the child to the father and is from\u00a0the right of the father from his son. The Exalted said:<\/p>\n

\u200e\u0648\u064e\u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u062f\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u0650 \u0625\u0650\u062d\u0652\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064b\u0627<\/strong><\/p>\n

And that you be dutiful to your parents [17:23]<\/p>\n

From goodness to them is addressing them well and being good to the parents is a certain commandment”.<\/p>\n

[Kanz uth-Thameen (4\/295-296)]<\/p>\n

Translated by<\/p>\n

Faisal Ibn Abdul Qaadir Ibn Hassan
\nAbu Sulaymaan<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Question: Is calling the father and mother: “Oh Father and Oh mother” obligatory or recommended? Is it allowed to call them by their agnomen (\u0627\u0644\u0643\u0646\u064a\u0629)? Do the father and mother due to\u00a0breast-feeding enter into this ruling? Answer: ” From the Prophetic etiquette, which Ibrahim (\u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0644\u0627\u0629 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645) used with his father is that he called […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3105"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3105"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3105\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3110,"href":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3105\/revisions\/3110"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darussaafi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}